女生如何挽回爱情,怎么挽回前任？女生版第31封，停止说谎

It will be wrong to say that you can make someone stop lying forever. You simply can't. But what you can do is make him feel safe enough that he never feels the need to lie. If you can make him feel like you underst& him & more importantly accept him as he is, he will never feel the need to lie to you about anything. Especially about things that matter. If you accept him & underst& him, he will want to open up & tell you the truth about about how he feels about everything without even thinking twice. No matter what you think about men, the truth is most men also need security in their relationship. They also want to love & be loved more than anything else. But the problem is most women in their lives have this habit of judging them & reacting whenever a man truly open them. As a result of this, they think it's just better to keep their feelings to themselves & maybe just lie about something that might make their girlfriends upset. Men want to share their feelings. (Even though society says otherwise.) And depending on how the girl reacts to his honesty, he will decide whether or not he should be completely honest in the future. So whenever a man shares his thoughts, don't judge him, don't get angry at him for thinking that some other girl is hot, don't be mad at him if he sometimes fantasizes about other girls. When a man tells you the truth, don't get upset. Don't be mad at him for getting a beer with his friends after work. If he prefers a couple of beers than watching Glee at home, it's his choice. It shouldn't make you mad. Listen, I am not saying that he can do whatever he wants, & you just become a doormat without any need & respect. If he doesn't respect you, you should leave him immediately. If he is lying to just get in your pants, don't ever call him back. But, if he loves you, & respects you, but still lies to you because he is scared of your emotions, you should try to remove his fears. And how do you remove his fears? By removing your fears first. It happens slowly. If their is insecurity in a relationship, it can't go away overnight. But it can go away. Once you remove your insecurities, your partner's insecurities also goes away slowly. Once you grow up, your partner also grows up slowly. I want you to start working on your insecurities about men today. And the first step for that would be to underst& men. Even if you think you know everything about men, you shouldn't stop learning. Maybe you were wrong about somethings. Maybe you were wrong about everything. Hey, I am a man & even I don't underst& men comletely. Heck, whenever I get a chance to read about male female psychology, I jump on it instantly. And the more I learn, the less insecure I feel about myself. The more I grow personally, the better my relationship becomes. -Kevin "Little Less Insecure" Thompson

这将是不正确的叫法，你可以让他人 停止说谎，直到永远。你压根就沒有。可是你可以做的是他会感觉充足安全性 他从不感觉必须撒谎。假如你可以他会感觉你掌握他 更关键的是接纳他，由于他是，他会 几乎沒有感觉必须骗你哪些。非常的事儿说事儿。

当你接纳了他，了解他，他会要 打开心扉，对你说怎样的实情 他感觉全都无需想 2次。无论你要哪些的人，但客观事实是 大部分男人在她们的关联也必须安全性。 她们还期望爱与不爱多 也要其他吗。女生如何挽回爱情,怎么挽回前任？但难题是，大部分女性在日常生活中有 这一习惯性看来她们反映的情况下 一个人真实开启。

做为那样的結果，她们 觉得它仅仅尽快维持自身的情感 自身，或许仅仅撒谎的物品， 将会让她们的女朋友不开心。男人想共享自身的体会。 （虽然社会发展 另有说。），并依据女生的反映，以他的诚信， 他将决策他是不是应当彻底 诚信的将来。因此每每一个人共享他的念头，不审理 他不闹脾气，在他觉得有 另一个女孩是热的，不必生他的气，假如他有时候 想象对别的女生。

当一个男人对你说实情，不生气。别 是疯掉，在他获得一个葡萄酒与他的盆友后， 工作中。假如他喜爱几罐葡萄酒比看 好意头在家中，它是他的挑选。它不应当给你发狂。听着，不是我说他能够 做他想干哪些， 但你不久变成不用一切和重视闷葫芦。假如他不重视你，你应当立刻离去他。

假如他是在骗先打在你的牛仔裤子，不必总是叫他回家。可是，假如他爱着你，重视你，但仍是 让你，由于他是担心你的心态，你应当 尝试清除他的恐惧。你怎样去掉他的恐惧？最先除去你的恐惧。它产生迟缓。假如她们不是安全性的关联， 它不可以走留宿。但可自主消退。一旦你删掉你的不安全感，你的爱人的不安全感 也消退迟缓。

女生如何挽回爱情,怎么挽回前任？如果你长大以后，你的爱人也生长发育迟缓。希望你可以刚开始工作中的不安全感 有关男人今日。及其用以使第一流程会 要掌握男人。即便你觉得你了解的一切的男人，你 不必停止学习培训。或许你不对 出人头地。或许你不对的事儿了。嘿，我是一个人，我自身都搞不懂的男人comletely。

哎哟，每每我获得一个机遇，掌握男性女性 社会心理学，我也能够 立刻跳。并且我越学习培训，越缺乏安全感，我认为相关 自己。我越长大了本人来讲，我更 关联越来越。 -Kevin“少一些不安全性”伦纳德